Celebrating the wedding of

Esther Shalini
and
Paul Stibbards

    About Us

    The Bride - Only child aka PrincessCareer Doting mum; assortment of other roles include HR, Mental Health counselling, and working with Special Needs childrenInterests Gym rat, culinary aficionado, relentless reader, traveller, choir champion, and spiritually mindedThe Groom - One of 4 aka The BestCareer Loyally worked for the family business from the age of 16; Career highlight - 40th President of the British Institute of Funeral Directors (2021)Interests Walking enthusiast, loves travelling and the great outdoors, aspiring badminton pro, 30 years volunteering for scoutsOur story - by PaulEsther and I met through several twists of fate which involved church, choir, BBQs, and unknown to us mutual friends.Intrigued, click here find out more

    The Big Days

    The wedding venue - Holy Trinity RayleighHistory The church’s chancel is Norman and has a history dating to the 13th century.Why we chose it? Looks, location and loyal church communityWedding details Start at 4 pm, smart casualParking details Rear of the church (limited spaces), please protect our planet - car share where possible.The Reception venue - Leez PrioryWhy we chose it Happily ever after fairytale castle setting, religious building, outdoors-y!Reception Details Attire suitable for the occasion (ours are custom made, just saying)

    The Wedding Party

    Bride (by Paul) - Gorgeous, Generous, the G.O.A.T.

    Groom (by Esther) - Chivalrous, Generous-er, The Raj of my heart


    Bridesmaids
    Beulah - Little cousin, Big brain
    Marian - Sister in Christ, Singing sensation
    Priyanka - Bestie from University, loves a good cause


    Groomsmen
    Darren - Best man and DIY enthusiast
    Andrew - Oldest brother, Heart of gold
    Adam - Cousin from across the pond, Host with the mostest


    Ushers
    Mark (cousin) - Entrepreneur, Captain of the high seas
    Rohan - AI expert, Bride's brother from another mother
    Master of ceremonies - David (Fellow colleague from BIFD, Loyalty above all else!)


    Incumbent - Tracy (Wise, Spiritual spokesperson!)


    The fun factor - Flower girl Amelie & Ringbearer Arjun

    The Finer Details

    The Venue Colour scheme
    Blush / rose gold & summer florals
    The Attire
    Custom made (in India)
    The Rings
    Paul’s ring handcrafted in India
    Esther’s bling bling, UK-made
    Trinity setting with diamonds to symbolise Holy Trinity, Time (past present future), and our blended family TrioThe Decor
    Handmade by Indra (mother of bride) and Manora (aunty of bride)
    The Bridal soirées
    Fulham beach barbie bash (June)
    Tropicana 90s night (July)
    Gospel Worship session (July)
    The Stag dos
    Jack the Ripper scavenger hunt (June)
    Genteel meal (July)
    The Rides
    Paul: Mustang Mach E
    Esther: Vintage Austin 7 Limo (courtesy Stibbards)

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